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Finding a Way Home
The concept of home is on my mind. I’m struck by the diversity of meaning this word holds, reflecting a geographic location, a cohesive...
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Apr 26, 20213 min read
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Seeking Restful Sleep?
My father, a family medicine physician, practiced in a small town in rural North Dakota. In the absence of specialized emergency room...
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Apr 15, 20214 min read
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I Accept That I'm Just Not a Party Animal
I sometimes wonder if I’ve over-accommodated to this lockdown lifestyle. Certainly there have been challenges over the past year, as...
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Mar 30, 20214 min read
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The Myth of the Perfect Pregnancy
Let’s debunk the myth of the perfect pregnancy. Even for those fortunate enough to become pregnant in a desired way and on their...
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Mar 26, 20215 min read
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Stormy Weather in Your Relationships
In his intimate essay on life, relationships, and parenthood, author Keith Gessen shared the following moment of conflict with his wife....
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Mar 21, 20212 min read
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Do We Dare Hope?
It feels almost reckless to experience the beginnings of hope for a post-pandemic future. I catch myself in a daydream, sitting in a...
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Mar 16, 20213 min read
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We Can't Go On Like This
We need a mental health infrastructure bill to meet the growing need for behavioral health services. We simply don't have enough trained...
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Mar 11, 20211 min read
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Can We Pretend I'm Better At This?
Does anyone else feel like they’ve lost the ability to interact? The multitude of conversations I’ve been having in my head seem to...
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Mar 9, 20213 min read
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Coaching You Toward Optimism
My son and his team of eager 3rd and 4th graders compete in a Saturday morning basketball game each week. I find it delightful to watch...
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Mar 2, 20213 min read
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Your Secret Weapon to Defeat Anxiety
If I asked you to determine the exact moment anxious thoughts enter your mind, how successful would you be? At the start of this essay,...
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Feb 25, 20213 min read
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I Should Be Doing More
As this pandemic began, like my colleagues, I scrambled to adjust my psychiatry practice. Each day was spent trialing various online...
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Feb 22, 20213 min read
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Piecing Together Your Beautiful Life
My maternal grandmother was a consistent and loving presence in my childhood. Though I knew her as the woman with the soft voice and...
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Feb 19, 20212 min read
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Sleep Within Reach
I love talking about sleep (cue my husband’s pretend snoring). As rates of insomnia have understandably climbed during the pandemic, many...
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Feb 12, 20214 min read
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Moms, This One's For You
We are attempting the impossible. We are simultaneously trying to keep our children safe, find novel ways to stimulate them, and make...
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Feb 8, 20215 min read
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Discovering a New Path Forward
I listened to a podcast today (Life Kit on NPR) featuring the poet Maggie Smith, whose most recent collection, Keep Moving, was published...
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Feb 5, 20213 min read
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Seeking a Rich and Meaningful Life
Perhaps we can begin with a quote by Dr. Viktor Frankl, a Viennese psychiatrist and neurologist who survived three years in Nazi death...
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Feb 3, 20214 min read
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Conquering Your Panic Attacks
Imagine this: You are a busy, working mom, running late for your first meeting while trying to get your reluctant daughter dressed in the...
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Feb 3, 20213 min read
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We Need Preventative Mental Health in 2021
During these past few months, it has been difficult to find a clear path through each day. We find ourselves spinning in circles,...
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Feb 3, 20212 min read
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Learning to Cope with Loss
This is a time of collective grief—for a way of life, certainty about the future, the presence of our loved ones. We were ambushed by the...
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Feb 3, 20212 min read
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To All the Humans Out There
As we navigate this confusing and exhausting period of uncertainty, many resources entreat us to practice “sitting with our emotions.” We...
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Feb 3, 20212 min read
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